The Power of Sitting With Your Critiques
Power of Sitting With Your Critiques
"Speaking of getting defensive, often critiques do cause an emotional reaction. Instead of blaming the person for their delivery or vowing to burn the next thing they write, take a moment to reflect. Is your reaction coming from a deeper insecurity? A past criticism? Sometimes the hardest critiques to swallow are the most relevant. And other times, they’re brusque and off-base. Be honest with yourself and stand by what’s important to you."
Article for Jane Friedman about receiving critiques, listening receptively, and standing by the soul of your project.